Monique Fasel has vowed to remove Celina and Stephanie Yavelow’s father Christopher Yavelow from their lives totally, absolutely, and forever. On October 1, 1999, she requested a court order that he be denied all parental rights of access. The court granted this request. In doing so the court violated Dutch laws by not even considering the children's wishes in this matter and the court violated articles 8, 9, 10, 11, 13, 14, 15, 16, 18, and 19 of The United Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child an international treaty to which the Netherlands is a party.
It is interesting to note that in making this request, Fasel demonstrated that her intent to remove the children from the United States with the clear "intent to obstruct the lawful exercise of parental rights" of Christopher Yavelow as defined by the International Parental Kidnapping Act. Thus, she became guilty of International Parental Kidnapping (see this document too).
Because of a perverse relationship with her own father that has been confirmed by her therapist Fasel erroneously imagines that this is in the best interests of the children. Let’s look at some of the statistics about the impact of fatherlessness upon children and see to what kind of life she will inflict on the children.
200%
Fatherless children are twice as likely to drop out of school then their classmates who live with two parents
72%
Seventy-two percent of all teenage murderers grew up without fathers
1100%
Fatherless children are eleven times more likely then are children from intact families to exhibit violent behavior.
80%
Eighty percent of adolescents in psychiatric hospitals come from fatherless homes.
70%
Seventy percent of the kids now incarcerated in juvenile corrections facilities grew up in a single-parent environment
75%
Three out of four teen suicides occur in single-parent families
164%
Compared to girls raised in homes where both parents are present, the daughters of single parents are 164-percent more likely to become pregnant before marriage
53%
Compared to girls raised in homes where both parents are present, 53 percent more likely to marry as teenagers
92%
Compared to girls raised in homes where both parents are present, 92 percent more likely to dissolve their own marriages
900%
The absence of a biological father increases by 900 percent a daughter’s vulnerability to rape and sexual abuse (often these assaults are committed by stepfathers or the boyfriends of custodial mothers).
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Children whose fathers are absent consistently score lower than the norm in reading and math tests.
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Children who live apart from their fathers experience more accidents and a higher rate of chronic asthma, headaches, and speech defects.
63% |
of youth suicides are from fatherless homes |
90% |
of all homeless and runaway youths are from fatherless homes. |
85% |
of children who exhibit behavioral disorders are from fatherless homes. |
71% |
of high school dropouts are from fatherless homes. |
70% |
of youths in State institutions are from fatherless homes. |
75% |
of adolescent patients in substance abuse centers are from fatherless homes. |
85% |
of rapists motivated by displaced anger are from fatherless homes. |
“Fatherlessness is the most destructive trend of our generation.”
“absent fathers are behind most social woes.”
“a missing father is a more reliable predictor of criminal activity than race, environment, or poverty.”
200% A child living with a divorced mother is almost twice as likely as a children living with both parents to repeat a grade of school, contract anemia, and suffer from intestinal distress, bed-wetting, and stuttering.
60% ”young white, teenage girls living in fatherless homes... were 60 percent more likely to have premarital intercourse than those living in two-parent homes.”
The absence of a father is a stronger factor than poverty in contributing to juvenile delinquency.
Crime rates were highest among adults who as children had been raised solely by women.
A father’s presence and conversation, especially at dinner time, stimulates a child to perform better at school.
A study of 7000 women working in topless bars and strip clubs: “Most of these women conceded that they were probably looking for the male attention that they had never gotten during their childhood.”
“An emotionally or physically absent father contributes to a child’s (1) low motivation for achievement; (2) inability to defer immediate gratification for later rewards; (3) low self-esteem; and (4) susceptibility to group influence and to juvenile delinquency.”